7 In 10 Americans See Beauty & Value In Aging, Not Just Youth

We live in a world that idolizes youth and is obsessed with looking young by any means possible. We are constantly bombarded with advertisements for anti-aging serums, creams, stores that sell clothing for young people, and more. Growing older can feel like swimming against the tide, in this landscape. It’s no secret that many aging citizens feel inclined to hide their grays or cover up their dark spots with makeup. But there is a rising trend of folks embracing their silver strands and opting for a more natural look.

StyleSeat surveyed over 2,000 Americans on their perceptions and experiences with getting older. In a surprising turn, they found that in some corners of America, people are not just accepting but embracing the journey into their later years. 

From redefining beauty standards with gray hair and wrinkles, to celebrating an evolving personal style, residents of certain states are rewriting the rules on aging. Read on below to take a look at the states where valuing beauty in aging is bucking the trend of obsession with youthful looks.

Key Findings

  • Iowa, Georgia, and Indiana are the states embracing aging the most.
  • Michigan, Maine, and Alabama are the states most hesitant to embrace aging.
  • When it comes to grays, 2 in 5 embrace them and forego dyes to cover them up.
  • By not using makeup to cover signs of aging, 54% embrace their aging skin.

How We Measured Who Embraces Aging

The prospect of growing older and exhibiting signs of aging is a concept that carries varying degrees of acceptance across the U.S. population. StyleSeat’s survey revealed that 63% of Americans are receptive to the idea of aging and the changes it brings to their appearance.

However, a deeper look into the data shows that societal perceptions and pressures differ for men and women. Men, at 70%, seem more comfortable with the aging process than women, with only 57% of them embracing it. This disparity speaks volumes about the beauty standards women encounter, often emphasizing youthful looks over the natural aging process.

To capture these insights, the state-by-state survey posed a series of questions to respondents, such as: “If you have gray hair, do you dye it to cover it up?”; “Have you ever undergone cosmetic surgery to retain a youthful appearance?”; and “How do you feel about the idea of aging and looking older?”

Based on the responses to these queries, StyleSeat allocated a score out of 100 for each state, offering a unique perspective on how regions differ in their attitudes towards aging.

The Most Age-Positive Individuals Live in Iowa

A significant 73% of Americans believe that older individuals possess beauty comparable to their younger counterparts. Breaking the results down demographically provided fascinating insights. The younger Gen Z leads the charge with 84% believing that beauty is ageless, trailed closely by millennials (73%), Gen X (72%), and boomers at 67%. 

Gender dynamics also play a role, as 81% of women acknowledge the beauty in older individuals, markedly higher than the 65% of men who share the sentiment.

The top five age-embracing states emerge as Iowa, Georgia, Indiana, Minnesota, and Kansas.

People in Michigan Are Least Likely to Embrace Aging

Topping the list of those states least welcoming to their golden years is Michigan. Falling into the bottom five overall, Michigan, with a score of 75.65, is joined by Maine (79.56), Alabama (79.77), Florida (80.19), and Nevada (80.33). 

Michigan’s hesitancy towards aging is evident in several aspects: only 22% of its residents are willing to embrace gray hair. Moreover, half (50%) of its population express reluctance at the idea of aging and looking older. And following closely behind Florida, Michigan has one of the highest rates of cosmetic procedures, indicating a collective pursuit of a youthful facade.

Gray Is Beautiful

The graying of hair, an undeniable symbol of the passage of time, is being embraced by a growing number of Americans. Two out of every five in the country who have gray hair choose not to hide behind hair dyes, letting their grays shine through.

However, a gender divide is evident: Men, at 54%, are more than twice as likely as women (25%) to celebrate their silver strands. 

To appear younger, 1 in 5 Americans alters their hairstyle. Looking deeper into the gender specifics, 24% of women opt for these youthful hairdos compared to 17% of men, again spotlighting the gender-based beauty pressures.

In a surprising twist, nearly a tenth of Americans have intentionally dyed their hair gray as a style choice even before time could turn it that shade. Leading this trend are the boomers with 12%, followed closely by Gen X at 10%, while millennials and Gen Z are neck and neck at 7%.

Regionally, some states stand out for embracing gray hair. Virginia leads the way at 53.2%, followed by South Carolina (52.1%), Georgia (49.0%), Pennsylvania (47.1%), and Iowa (46.8%).  

Across generations and states, the acceptance of gray hair is an inspiring testament to changing perceptions about aging and beauty.

People in These States Welcome Their Aging Skin

Across the U.S., 54% of Americans choose authenticity over concealment, opting not to mask aging signs like wrinkles and dark spots with makeup. Boomers are at the forefront with 68% relishing their natural skin, trailed by Gen X (62%), millennials (53%), and Gen Z (22%). 

A deeper look into gender dynamics reveals that men, at a striking 73%, are more than twice as likely as women (35%) to flaunt their aging skin. This difference once again sheds light on the oftentimes stringent beauty standards faced by women. 

Regionally, the state championing natural skin is led by Iowa with a commendable 70.2%. Following closely are Colorado (66.0%), Kentucky (63.3%), Washington (62.7%), and Tennessee (61.5%). 

Even Young People are Embracing “Older” Styles

In a delightful twist of fashion trends, the age-old adage, “what’s old is new again,” has never been truer. Nearly 1 in 6 Americans are leaning into the “grandmacore” aesthetic, draping themselves in cozy, chunky sweaters, intricate patchwork patterns, and classic loafers.

Spearheading this trend is Gen Z, with an overwhelming 89% decreeing that loafers are a timeless style suitable for all ages. Close on their loafer-style heels are millennials, (84%), boomers (82%), and Gen X (78%).

However, while the younger generation comfortably dons “older” styles, the reverse isn’t always met with the same acceptance. When older individuals sport what’s considered younger attire, 1 in 8 Americans raise an eyebrow, deeming it “weird.” 

But, not all generations judge alike. Gen Z, once again leading the pack in open-mindedness, is the most accepting, with 34% giving a nod of approval to seniors sporting younger styles. This acceptance rate takes a dip with millennials and Gen X both at 19%, and boomers are the least appreciative at 14%.

Drawing from gender perspectives, women, with 27% in agreement, are considerably more accepting of age-fluid fashion than their male counterparts at 12%.

Aging Is an Opportunity, Not an Obstacle

It’s refreshing to discover places where people welcome the wisdom and beauty that come with age. Embracing aging isn’t just a state of mind, it’s an art form practiced by age-positive individuals across the country.

We hope this statistics will give you the encouragement you need to embrace your look no matter what stage of life you are in, and know that true beauty radiates from inside out.

See more of the stats on Americans’ view on aging over at StyleSeat.